“Cos we can’t stop & we won’t stop”
Today we live in a world where sex is not as taboo as it once was…and that’s a beautiful thing!! With thousands of erotic books sweeping our nation, there has been a rise in sex toy sales and bondage equipment. Everyone’s a lot more inclined to get their ‘Christian Grey’ on and explore their kinkier side. Couples are exploring things with their partners that most people would of never dreamed about doing 10 years ago. Swinging and partner swapping has became more popular and the Soho sex scene is booming!! Things are just so much more relaxed, and a LOT more accepted.
I decided to pile together a mini survey for 10 random friends (who were open enough to discuss) and find out just exactly what they have got up to in the past and what they would be willing to try in the future, and the answers I got were actually quite shocking. Before the days of Christian Grey and Gideon Cross, only a handful of women would admit to wanting to be tied up or blindfolded, or lightly spanked, but since we heard that famous “Laters Baby” line its been all us kinky bitches seem to want to do. And men seem to be just as bad if not worse than us women!! I couldn’t believe how many men were turned on at the thought of having a powerless woman in the bedroom. One they could have their wicked way with over and over again without hearing them complain of a headache or not being in the mood!! It’s crazy!! But its fucking awesome!!
I thought it would be quite interesting to list the top 5 taboo situations that are deemed kinky as fuck now 🙂
1. Partner Swapping – Now if I’m honest, this one is not for me. I couldn’t picture myself in a scenario where my partner and I are getting down to it and then all of a sudden we’ve got to chop and change and get acquainted with another person… and the thought of actually watching my partner with someone else would make me sick to my stomach!! They’re mine, get your own!! 🙂
2. Roleplay (Aggressive) – Violent roleplay was a very common one that kept cropping up. Can kind of see why… The thought of being completely powerless just for them few short minutes yet completely trusting the person you’re with, that’s gotta feel sexy right??
3. Toys – Toys seem to be mandatory in most couples sex lives these days. If I’m honest, I don’t think any girl can say she hasn’t had or still got a sex toy floating about in her bedroom whether it be Love Eggs, a Bullet or The Megatron 5000 Delux. Sometimes they just “brighten” things up 🙂
4. Watching Porn Together – Now I remember the first time a guy asked me to watch porn with him, I was literally crawling in my skin. It physically made me cringe. But now a lot of couples enjoy indulging in a bit of pre-session porn before getting down to it. Its a wonderful thing 🙂
5. Exploring their curiosity – This can be a whole range of things. Can range from using different objects to exploring their bi sexual sides.
All of these things used to be frowned upon. Nobody would want to talk about their sex lives through fear of being called a slut or a whore but now its not so hidden. Girls will walk freely into an Ann Summers just the same as guys will and neither of them care about what others around them are thinking because in hindsight they’re actually not thinking anything anymore. Sex has become part of our everyday way of life and the things that were deemed ‘dirty’ or ‘x-rated’ are now just craved by everyone.
Personally I just want this relaxed way to get even more relaxed!! Let the good times roll (in the hay) 😉
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Moaning Myrtle 